It’s such a simple word. Three letters. Just one syllable.  So why is joy so elusive?  We try so hard to find it – but, you know…

Why is Joy in Such Short Supply?

Well, it’s great to be with you again this week and we are starting a new series on the programme called, “It’s Time to Start Enjoying My Life”. I really am looking forward to this series because “joy” is such a big issue in life. It’s such a simple little word – just three letters, one syllable – “joy” and yet it seems in such short supply; it’s more precious than gold or silver. Think about it, how many of the people that you know, would say, if asked, “I’m really enjoying my life?” And if I ask you, how much, on a scale of zero to ten, are you enjoying your life, right now? How would you answer?

Most people hover somewhere around the middle or bottom half of that “zero to ten” scale. Why is it though that joy seems to be in such a short supply in this world? There’s not one person that I know if I asked them, “Would you like to experience joy in your life?” I don’t know anyone that would say, “Aw no, no, I don’t think I need joy in my life.”

Joy is such a wonderful thing, it’s such an important thing. Now I’ve travelled to lots of parts of this planet; places where people are really wealthy, I mean mega wealthy; places where people are moderately well off and places where people live in abject poverty. I know people who are rich and people who are poor, tall and short, black and white, thick and thin, but you know something? None of those distinctions seem to have much to do with whether they are enjoying their lives or not.

Those external things, at the end of the day, that’s not really where it’s at. You can have everything that money can buy – the latest plasma screen, the biggest new car, the finest clothes, jewellery, all those things and more; a wonderful husband or wife and great kids – you can have all of those things and still not really be enjoying your life.

I heard a well known, really wealthy business man on TV the other night and he can have anything he wants. You could tell though, as he spoke and you looked at him, you could tell that he had an unsettled life; he was looking for something. See so often, when it comes to joy and the levels of joy that we experience, they’re so low and we blame those things on the outside. “Well, I’d enjoy my life if I had more money.” “I’d enjoy my life if I had a better job.” “I’d enjoy my life if other people weren’t so difficult; if it wasn’t for the politics at work or the tension at home, or my loneliness or … You name it, we can blame it – then I’d enjoy my life.”

You know what I am talking about; blame, blame, blame. But you know why I know that it’s not the things on the outside that give us joy? Because I used to be one of the people that thought that it was. I could holiday in five star resorts, I did. Had gold plated taps in the en suite – you name it, I could have it and I had no joy. I actually felt desperately miserable.

You see, there’s a big swindle going on in society and I don’t care whether you live in a wealthy country or whether you live in a poor country. Maybe you have heard me talk about it before perhaps and I take aim at the advertising industry. It’s not really their fault because it’s a symptom of a greedy society.

See, they flash up on television and in the media and on radio, seductive images of success and they link them to the product that they are trying to sell us and the message is, “If you buy this product you will be happy.” So you do – you buy that product; you spend your hard earned cash and you discover that there is just no joy in it. And so we watch the next ad and we buy the next thing and it still doesn’t satisfy and we do the next thing and it still doesn’t satisfy. “Oh, when I’m happily married, then I’ll enjoy my life.” But you know something? Another person can’t make you happy!

I have a wonderful wife – truly. Jacqui is my absolute favourite person on planet earth but I can easily still feel empty and hollow and unhappy, even though I have her; even though I have a comfortable home to live in. See, we live in a world based on greed. Companies know that so they trade on our dissatisfaction; they trade on our lack of joy; they trade on our desire to discover joy as the basis for earning more money to fill people’s pockets to make them happy but it never does. That’s the swindle!

Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m not against capitalism; I’m not against free enterprise; I’m not against people working hard – those things on their own though just don’t bring you joy. And yet, over and over and over again, we go looking for joy in all the wrong places. “Ah, if I am entertained, I’ll enjoy myself then.” Sure for a short time, some entertainment might make us feel good but that’s not what I am talking about. I’m talking about a deep, abiding contentment; a deep joy that never goes away – right through the highs and the lows and the ups and the downs and the good times and the bad times – a joy that’s deep inside somewhere, that words can’t describe. That’s what I’m talking about. Joy; real, abiding joy!

Now you might say to me, “Berni, is that what life’s all about? Aren’t you being unrealistic? Are you being a Christian hedonist – you know, the whole point of knowing God is that so you feel good?” Well, let me tell you something – one of God’s greatest promises is the promise of joy when we have a relationship with Him – it’s not an optional extra. He talks about it literally hundreds of times through the Bible. We are going to look at some of those over the coming weeks. Psalm 126, verse 5 says:

Those who sow in tears will reap with songs of joy.

Jesus said … you can read it in John chapter 16, verse 24. By the way, if you have a Bible grab it, we are going to need it today. John chapter 16, verse 24:

“Until now,” He said “you have not ask for anything in My name. Ask and you will receive and your joy will be complete.”

Joy is not some optional extra in our relationship with God. It’s an integral part of God’s plan for our lives. So often God says He is going to do this or do that so that our joy would be complete. See, He wants complete joy for us – a joy that never fades; a sweet calm delight in our hearts – no matter what life throws at us. And it’s a joy – a joy that comes from Him. Problem is so many people are trying to chase down this elusive thing called “joy”, just looking in the wrong places.

Whose Idea is Joy Anyway?

There is something awesome about being around a person who has a deep sense of joy. Maybe you know one or two people like that. Often they are not sort of over the top, really out going people; sometimes they are quiet and gentle but you just know that there is something inside them that you want. They seem to cope so well with the curved balls that life throws at them. They seem to have so much to give. They have like…like a quiet, understated kind of gentle confidence – maybe confidence isn’t the right word, maybe contentment is the word I am looking for – and that person’s joy kind of invades our heart space. We just want to be around them. It feels good because they’re safe and encouraging and they are just great to be around.

Most of us only know one or two people like that but what we know is that we want to be around them because it does us a whole bunch of good. My hunch is we kind of all relate to that. Joy is a commodity that seems to be in such short supply.

The advertising industry, as I said earlier, tells us “Buy this product and you will experience joy” – it never happens. It’s a symptom of a greedy world – me, me, me, more, more, more. But the more that we chase after this precious commodity that we call “joy”, the more … well, the more elusive it becomes.

For much of my life I truly subscribed to the philosophy that if all my needs were met – all my desires – I would experience joy. I had the big house, I had the latest car, I had gadgets galore but they never brought me the joy and the contentment I was looking for.

So where do you get it? Christians sometimes get a little bit uncomfortable with the fact that we are talking about “joy” because it appears to be self-centred that we would be chasing after “joy”. When Jesus came to this planet, He came proclaiming … what? The Kingdom of God; the reign of God in our lives and people got confused. They saw the Roman occupation in first century Israel and they thought, “Here is this Messiah to set us free from that kingdom of oppression and re-establish God’s Kingdom in Israel; like when David was King – back to the good old days.”

Now, that’s not what He was talking about at all. He was talking about something that happens in our hearts. In Luke chapter 17, verse 20:

The Pharisees asked Him about the Kingdom of God and they said when would it come? And Jesus replied “The Kingdom of God isn’t coming in a way that you can see. People won’t say “Here it is” or “There it is” because the Kingdom of God is within you.

People thought it was a physical kingdom; God had another plan. The Apostle Paul – he puts it really well in Romans chapter 14, verse 17 – he’s talking about religious rules here. But he says:

The Kingdom of God is not a matter of food or drink but of righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.

Isn’t that interesting? The Kingdom of God isn’t about these physical things; not rules and regulations about what to eat and drink, it’s about three things – righteousness which is what we have when we believe in Jesus and we experience His forgiveness; a right standing with God through our faith in Jesus Christ; getting our lives back on tract. And through that we then get a peace and a joy – these are the things that the Kingdom of God is all about.

And they come to us not through buying the latest gadget or extending the house or renovating the bathroom. No, they come to us through the Holy Spirit. And it’s not a peace and a joy that the world offers – it’s not something you can buy off the rack in the store, not that at all – it’s a gift from God and it’s something that Jesus talked about over and over and over again.

Flip your Bible across from Luke to John chapter 15, verse 11. Jesus disciples were afraid; Jesus is about to be crucified. Everything they have believed and seen over the last three and a half years is falling in a screaming heap and look at what Jesus talks about:

I have said these things to you so that My joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.” “I have said these things to you so that My joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.

Jesus is about giving us God’s joy even in those incredibly difficult times and in fact, especially in those times, and making our joy complete. Let me share something really interesting and profound with you. The Greek word – remember the New Testament was written in Greek – the Greek word for “joy” used right through the New Testament, is closely related to the word for “free gift” and the word for “grace”.

You see, God’s joy is this thing that He wants to lavish on us freely – it’s part of His grace; it’s an integral part of who He is and what He has done through Jesus Christ. And over and over and over again, what we see is that the joy that Jesus talks about isn’t the joy from the world. It’s the joy that comes from God.

It’s not some joy we conjure up for ourselves; it’s not something we experience because something good happened to us today or we bought some new clothes or something. No! God is a God of joy. Now, I challenge you – no we are not going to go there today – but I challenge you to read just one chapter in the Bible, its Luke chapter 15. Jesus tells three parables: one is about a shepherd who loses a sheep; one is about a widow who loses a coin and one is of a father who loses his son. And in each case these people regain what they had lost.

Jesus told these stories to explain to us what God is like. The point of it is the joy in God’s heart when He gets us back. The father of the prodigal son responds with such joy, he just lavishes it on his son who once was lost but now is found – he throws a party.

My experience is I tried to get joy hits in so many different places before I met Jesus. I had the money to spend, so I did. I spent a fortune trying to capture joy and get it in my heart, but I never did until one day I encountered Jesus Christ. His presence; His Spirit is what flooded my heart with joy. It overflows out of me into the lives of other people – not perfectly – but in a way that words can’t describe. Peter the Apostle, puts it this way in First Peter chapter 1, verse 8:

Even though you haven’t seen Him with your own eyes, you love Him and even though you don’t see Him now, you believe in Him and you are filled with an unspeakable and glorious joy because you are receiving the goal of your faith, salvation of your souls.

I didn’t realise it at first but as my relationship with Jesus began to grow, that unspeakable and glorious joy; a joy that – I’m good with words, but I can’t find words to describe because it’s unspeakable and glorious. That wondrous joy filled my heart. It’s not something you and I can conjure up. It’s God’s joy and He pours it into our hearts, through His Holy Spirit as we experience His forgiveness and start to live in His goodness and ditch the rubbish we used to think and speak and do.

That’s why Paul wrote God’s Kingdom isn’t about rules and regulations and physical things. It’s about righteousness and peace and joy – God’s righteousness, God’s peace and God’s joy that are given to us through the Holy Spirit. It’s totally out of this world. Jesus was talking about His peace – He said:

My peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. I don’t give it to you the way the world does so don’t let your hearts be troubled and don’t let them be afraid,

He says in John chapter 14, verse 27.

See until we experience it we just don’t understand it. Even when we do, it’s impossible to find words to describe the wondrous reality of the joy and the peace Jesus Christ brings. They’re not from this world; they come from Him. And we can look in as many holes and under as many logs as we like but it’s not until we put our trust in Him, completely in Him, that we experience His joy. We dwell in His presence, we pray, we are filled with such a wonder and such an awe and such a joy unspeakable.

Entering the Gates of Joy

We have been talking about the fact that God’s plan is to fill us with joy but sometimes people look at God from a distance and they say, “Well, you know, I don’t believe that that joy is for me. I don’t know.”

Let me share a story with you. I visited a barber’s shop recently to have my hair cut and as Bert the barber went to work we began to talk. We talked about … well, all sorts of things – sport, as you do in a barber’s shop, politics, interest rates. Eventually we ended up on the subject of God. Bert says to me, “You know Berni, I don’t believe that God exists.” “That’s interesting,” I said, “Why do you say that?” Here’s what he said: “Well you just have to go out onto the street to realise that God doesn’t exist. Tell me, if God existed, would there be so many sick people? Would there be so many abandoned children? If God existed would there be pain and suffering? I can’t imagine a loving God would allow these things to happen.”

I thought about it but I didn’t want to get into an argument with him so, when my haircut was done, I just paid and headed out the door. But just outside the door there was a man in the street, with long stringy, dirty hair and an untrimmed beard. He looked dirty and unkempt so I turned around and headed straight back into the barber’s shop and I said to Bert, “You know what Bert, barbers don’t exist.” He was a bit taken aback. He said, “How can you say that? I’m here, I’m a barber, I just worked on you.” “No”, I said, “Barbers don’t exist because if they did there wouldn’t be any people with dirty, long hair and untrimmed beards like that guy outside.”

But Bert was sharp as a tack. He said, “Ah, but barbers do exist – that’s what happens when people don’t come to me.” “Exactly, that’s the point – God does exist too but all that stuff you were talking about – that’s what happens when people don’t go to Him.” End of discussion! You get my point? People want to criticise God from a distance but you can’t do that.

We are talking this week about joy – God’s joy and if we want to enjoy our lives we have to enter into that joy. We can’t stand at a distance and complain about God and can’t say He’s not real and criticise Him. If we want to have that joy we have to enter into the joy.

I love poetry, always have. There’s a beauty and wonder in taking something profound and expressing it in poetry. And the Book of Psalms; Psalm 100, verse 3 says this:

Know that the Lord is God. It is He who made us and we are His. We are His people, the sheep of His pasture. Enter into His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise. Give thanks to Him and praise His name for the Lord is good and His love endures for ever. His faithfulness continues through to all generations.

God has a heart full; a God sized heart full of joy that He wants to pour into our hearts. That’s what we have been looking at on the programme today. Jesus said it over and over again. He said:

I have said these things to you so that My joy might be in you and that your joy might be complete.

And where we kind of sit back at a distance, either totally scornful of God, as I used to be, or maybe kind of believing in Him at a distance; believing that … well, He’s God but never, never really believing that … “He would want to fill me – me – with His joy.”

Come on, wake up! God’s joy – a joy that we can’t find anywhere else in this world; a joy that words can’t express; a joy unspeakable – is an integral part of His plan for our lives. But we have to walk through the door; we have to enter into that joy, to “enjoy”. That’s what “enjoy” means, to enter into the joy.

We need to ask and thirst and spend time with Him and pray and beat His door down and don’t leave Him alone until He does what He said He would do – to give us His joy and so make our joy complete. It’s a joy that fills us in the good times and the bad times.

Ask, search, knock! Whoever asks receives! Whoever searches finds! Whoever knocks, well, to that person the door will be opened!

If we as parents, evil as we are, give our children good gifts, how much more do you think our Father in heaven will give us good gifts when we ask?

I have said these things to you so that My joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.

We tend to think of joy and sorrow as being opposite ends of the emotional spectrum. But God – God has this thing where He wants to pour His joy, into our sorrow …

A Letter of Some Friends

Last week on the programme we began a new series called, “It’s Time to Start Enjoying My Life”. Look around, the joy in this world seems to be in such very short supply and yet “joy” is something that Jesus, so much, wants us to experience. Not the joy that the world has to offer; not some short term happiness fix – not that – real joy; abiding joy; lasting joy.

You can read what Jesus said about “joy” in John chapter 15 and verse 11. This is a time when the disciples were afraid because Jesus was about to be crucified – they knew it. Everything was falling in a screaming heap. And look at what Jesus talks about. He says:

I have said all these things to you so that My joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.

Isn’t that awesome?

So that My joy (Jesus joy) may be in us and that our joy might be complete.

The problem is that, well, that can be really, really hard to swallow. I receive so many emails from people who are struggling in life. One man in Africa, he belongs to one tribe and his wife to another and her family are trying to tear the marriage apart.

I had an email from a woman the other day who has had so many people in her life disappoint her and fail her. There are so many people living life in circumstances that, well in the natural; in our flesh, they don’t warrant joy. Joy and sorrow after all, are at the opposite ends of the spectrum.

How dare some joker come on the radio and start talking about joy? “If he only knew my circumstances. How can he say that God wants me to experience joy? What a load of rubbish!” Well, that’s a common reaction. If you are struggling with things in your life at the moment, it’s not a surprising reaction. You are not on your own. Okay, then, let me as you a question. If God meant us to wallow in sorrow why is it that Jesus said:

Until now you haven’t ask for anything in My name. Ask and you will receive and your joy will be complete.

You can read that – if you have a Bible, open it up – that came from John chapter 16, verse 22.

See God never meant us to live life in despair. If He did, why would the Bible say this:

Even though you haven’t seen Him with your own eyes, you love Him and even though you don’t see Him now, you believe in Him and you are filled with an unspeakable and glorious joy because you are receiving the goal of your faith which is the salvation of your soul.

That comes from First Peter chapter 1, verse 8. Or Psalm 33:

Sing to Him a new song, play skilfully and shout for joy.

No, God means us to live in His joy and so often He calls us to joy when our lives and circumstances demand sorrow.

It’s a bitter sweet irony and today and the next couple of weeks we are going to spend some time with a man on death row. A man locked in a dungeon in chains under the sentence of death; a man who, if anyone did, deserved to wallow in sorrow.

His name is Paul and he opens his letter to his friends with this mournful and sorrowful words. Have a listen – it comes from Philippians chapter 1, verses 1 to 11:

Paul and Timothy, both servants of Christ Jesus, to all the saints in Christ Jesus at Philippi, together with the overseers and the deacons. Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

I thank my God every time I remember you. In all of my prayers for all of you I always pray with joy because of your partnership in the Gospel from the first day until now. Being confident of this: that He who has begun a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.

It’s right for me to feel this way about all of you since I have you in my heart. For whether I am in chains or defending and confirming the Gospel, all of you share in God’s grace with me. God can testify how I long for all of you with the affection of Jesus Christ and this is my prayer: that your love will abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ. Filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ to the glory and the praise of God.”

Does that sound like a guy who is on death row; in a dungeon? Look how he starts: “I thank my God” – he begins with thanksgiving. And then he says “I always pray for you with joy.” What right has this man in a dungeon to feel joy? And then he says “It is right for me to feel this way about you because we all share in God’s grace.”

See, what he is doing is he is pouring out to his friends what is in his heart. He is saying “In my heart I feel these things. Sure, outside I am in chains but in my heart I experience joy.” And his prayer for them is that their love may abound more and more and more – this abundant over-flowing story of love and joy.

See, this man is in chains on death row and in fact he gets a whole bunch worse, we’ll have a look at that a little bit later on the programme. In the second chapter it gets a whole bunch worse and yet he opens his letter; his letter of chains with an overflow of abundance of joy that comes from the grace of God in Jesus Christ.

It’s interesting you know, that the Greek words used in the New Testament for “joy” and for “grace” come from the same root word. Joy and God’s grace are closely linked for Paul. And he’s saying, “Look, what’s going on in my heart is what really matters because the Spirit of God has taken up residence here.”

I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you I always pray with joy. It’s right for me to feel this way about you, even though I’m in chains we all have a share in God’s grace.

I want to share with you an email that I received last Christmas. I sent out a word by email to several thousand of our ministry supporters and just a gentle word about God being on our journey with us and one woman, Karen, replied and said this, “I seem to attract people who seem to want me around and yet when someone else comes along that they prefer, I get pushed aside. Especially at these times I feel God is the only one I can trust. I’m sorry if I sound a bit glum, I’m not really. Sometimes I feel a bit sad but then I think about God and how He’s still loves me and He wants me to be with Him.”

You see, Karen knows the thing that Paul knows – that joy doesn’t come from other people or what’s happening on the outside of us, it comes from God Himself.

I thank my God every time I pray for you. In all my prayers for all of you I always pray in joy.

We are going to look next at how the Apostle Paul handled rejection.

Outrageous Fortunes

In his play, “Hamlet”, Shakespeare talks about “suffering the slings and the arrows of outrageous fortunes” and when we take a look at the next part of this letter of the Apostle Paul from his dungeon on death row; a letter to his friends at Philippi, well, this letter makes sense of this line from “Hamlet”. Have a listen – I’m reading from the Bible – Philippians chapter 1, verses 12 to 26. If you’ve got a Bible, grab it, open it and read it with me.

Now I want you to know brothers, that what has happened to me has really served to advance the Gospel. As a result, it has become clear throughout the whole palace guard and to everyone else that I am in chains for Christ. Because of my chains most of the brothers in the Lord have been encouraged to speak the Word of God more courageously and fearlessly. It’s true! Some people preach Christ out of envy and rivalry but others out of good will. The latter do so in love knowing that I am put here for the defense of the Gospel. The former, well, they preach Christ out of selfish ambition not sincerely, supposing that they can stir up trouble for me while I’m in chains.

But what does it matter? The important thing is that in every way, whether from false motives or true, Christ is preached and because of this I rejoice. Yes, I will continue to rejoice for I know that through your prayers and help, given by the Spirit of Jesus Christ, what has happened to me will turn our for my deliverance. I eagerly expect and hope that I will in no way be ashamed but I will have sufficient courage so that now as always, Christ will be exalted in me, whether by life or by death. For to me to live is Christ and to die is gain. If I am going to go on living in this body this will mean fruitful labour for me.

Yet what shall I choose? I don’t know! I am torn between the two – I desire to depart and be with Christ which is far better but it is more necessary for you that I remain in the body. Convinced of this, I know that I will remain and I will continue with all of you for your progress and joy in faith, so that through my being with you again, your joy in Christ will overflow on account of me.

This is an amazing passage because remember, the Apostle Paul is in chains in a Roman dungeon on death row. He is there because he went out and told people about Jesus so this is religious persecution – he has been locked up for his faith and for sharing his faith with other people.

But instead of grumbling, I mean wouldn’t it be so easy to be in prison and say, “God, why have You put me here? God, I only went out to tell them about You, God what are You doing?” Would be so easy for Paul to do that, and instead he sees the positive?

You know, so often we only see the negative. I remember a time a dozen or so years ago when I was going through some really difficult times – my own dungeon; so incredibly dark. I experienced some really difficult things in my life and it was as black as black could be. It was incredible pain of loss and fear and loneliness and betrayal. I wasn’t suffering for the Gospel like Paul, I was just suffering.

That’s the place where I first met Jesus Christ. Now, as much as it hurt, I always had the sense that God had a purpose in it – that God would somehow use it. Can I tell you something? Without that suffering I would be completely useless to you right now. I was Mister “I’m perfect” and full of myself and arrogant and conceited and only interested in “me” and the suffering broke open my heart, let Jesus in; the Great Healer. I look back on it now and I see the positive.

Paul was mature in his relationship with Christ and he was able to sit there in the dungeon and see the positive thing there. Right when it was happening; right when he was chained up; right when he was under the fear of death, he wanted to say to his brothers and sisters in Philippi, “You know something? What’s happened to me is good because it served to advance the Gospel.”

And then the second bit is the one that really gets me. He goes on to talk about what other people were doing and saying and they were preaching out of envy. They were preaching out of selfish ambition; they were preaching to stir up more trouble for Paul. Paul has poured at least ten years of his life out into preaching the Gospel and planting churches across Asia Minor and here he is, he’s suffering the most incredible things. He had the right to some recognition; he had a right to some respect and honour and yet, the other Christians instead were taunting him.

The worst possible thing – he’s in jail and they’re taunting him and his response? Let’s read it again:

But what does it matter? The important thing that is in every way, whether from false motives or true, Christ is being preached and because of this I rejoice.

See, he’s not interested in what other people are doing. He doesn’t care about what other people think; he humbly just wants people to meet Jesus. And that humility sets him free to experience joy. And he finishes up that passage and he says:

I am convinced that I will be with you and I know that I will remain and I’ll continue with all of you for your progress and joy in the faith.

See, for Paul it’s about joy and enjoying life no matter whether he’s doing well and he’s got lots to eat or whether he is locked up in a dungeon on death row.

“Yes I’ll continue to rejoice,” he says, “for I know that through your prayers and the help given by the Spirit of Jesus Christ, what has happened to me will turn out for my deliverance.”

If we are going to rejoice, we have to enter into God’s joy we have to “enjoy”. Now, either Paul is totally mad or he is onto something here. What do you think? What’s going on for Paul here in his dungeon? It looks to me like there is a light in his heart; a fire that’s burning so bright all the darkness around him can’t put it out.

I remember being in the Army on an exercise, years ago and they gave us waterproof and windproof matches. It was a real problem when you are out in the bush and it is really windy and the flame always blows out – these matches were amazing. You lit one, even when it was soaking wet it would light and the strongest gale couldn’t blow it out. You could blow as hard as you liked and this match kept burning. That’s the picture of what’s going on in the heart of Paul; a joy unspeakable; a joy that comes from out of this world; a joy that comes from God Himself.

Well, that’s Paul. What about you and me? Can we have joy like that? We’ll take a look at that next.

The Joy of the Lord is My Strength

Well, it’s great to have a listen to the Apostle Paul’s circumstances and realities but you and I, we’re not Paul; we are different people; we’ve got different circumstances. So this is not a message that goes
“Paul had his act together, let’s live our lives like Paul” because, truthfully, I don’t believe that it works that way.

That would be a “works” thing. The Bible talks about “dead works” and trying to be like Paul, I think it would be exactly that – a dead work. So what then? We have troubles and trials in life – we do. Sometimes we go through circumstances that are so incredibly tough; times that appear to be filled with sorrow and despair. What role does joy have?

I want to go back to what I said at the beginning of the programme and last week. Not talking about some worldly joy that we conjure up in our hearts; I’m not talking about pulling our socks up and having a good attitude; I’m not talking about “works”. God’s joy is a gift of grace so I’m talking about God’s joy.

Let’s go back to what Jesus said to His disciples – John chapter 15, verse 11 – when they were afraid; when they were in despair; when they knew that Jesus was about to be crucified and everything was falling apart – He says:

I have said all these things to you so that My joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.

… His joy in our hearts. He wants to impart His joy into our lives and that’s a gift of grace; a free gift from God.

Last week on the programme we looked at the story of Israel in Nehemiah chapter 8. They had heard the word of God and they wept because they knew that they had turned their backs on God. They were convicted in their hearts by the Holy Spirit of their sin and that’s the time, isn’t it, when we feel least deserving of God’s joy?

Actually what we feel deserving of is God’s punishment and wrath. And the reason we feel that is that we are made in His image. We have His sense of justice and that is exactly what we deserve. But then, instead of what they deserved, listen to what God said to them through Nehemiah, their leader. You can read it in the Old Testament. Nehemiah chapter 8, verse 10:

Nehemiah said “Go and enjoy choice food and sweet drinks and send some to those who have nothing prepared. This day is sacred to the Lord; don’t grieve for the joy of the Lord is your strength.”

Whose joy? God’s joy – grace a free gift from Him when they deserved punishment, God said to them through Nehemiah, “the joy of the Lord is your strength.” When we turn to Him; when we get up close with Him, a glorious joy that words can’t describe is His free gift to us – a joy unspeakable.

And the key is this, “The joy of the Lord is our strength”. This is not a “be like Paul” message – it’s not that. When we draw close to Jesus; when we spend more and more time with Him; when we do that, He fills us with His joy. Have a listen again to the way the Apostle Peter puts it in First Peter chapter 1, verse 8:

Even though you haven’t seen Him with your own eyes, you love Him. And even thought you don’t see Him now, you believe in Him and you are filled with an unspeakable and glorious joy because you are receiving the goal of your faith; the salvation of your souls.

And that joy … that joy is a joy that God imparts to us. We are receiving the goal of our faith – we are receiving His joy. So many people are going through tough times in life and they will call a friend on the phone before they talk to God about it.

Wake up! Jesus is in this place with us, with you and with me. Whatever our dungeon looks like; whatever those other people are doing to hurt us and taunt us, the joy of the Lord is our strength – in dark places, in dark times, in dark dungeons. Those are places of great opportunity, when there is no other light that shines, His light will shine in our hearts. Listen to what Paul says in Second Corinthians chapter 4, verse 6:

It’s the same God, who at creation commanded the light to shine over the darkness, who has shone in our hearts with the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ.

I want to encourage you with something today: Jesus died and rose again so that we could be forgiven all the things we have done wrong and have a relationship with Him and experience His joy. This joy is not something that you and I conjure up – it’s not something that we buy off the rack. This joy comes from God Himself. It’s His free gift and when we humble ourselves; when we turn to Him; when we desire Him with all our hearts; we turn away from all that rubbish that we are into and day after day and week after week, month after month, He will fill us with a certain joy so wondrous that there are no words to describe it.

Paul knew that. That’s what was going on for him in the dungeon. Paul couldn’t write about joy to the Philippians because he was some spiritual superman, Paul was just a weak man in chains in a Roman dungeon but those chains didn’t bind his heart because he had a real experience of Jesus Christ. Not some distant experience, he had a real experience of Jesus Christ and it was Jesus Himself who gave him that joy. Jesus said:

I have said these things to you so that My joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.

It is time to start enjoying your life and joy – real joy comes from Jesus.

Joy is a wonderful thing. And it turns out that Jesus died in order that we might have His joy. True. But sometimes, sometimes we squander that joy – what an incredible waste.

Paint the Picture

Over these last few weeks we’ve been taking a look at joy, especially God’s heart for us to have His joy in our lives – a complete and overflowing sense of joy. I don’t know anyone who doesn’t want joy in their lives but I’m not talking about some fleeting happiness; not some warm and fuzzy that we get when we’ve had a good day or something good has happened to us. Those warm and fuzzes, well, they’re nice but somehow, they seem to evaporate so quickly.

Now when Jesus talks about joy, He talks about something quite different. Have a listen. On that last evening together with His disciples, before He was to be crucified He talked so much about joy and what an odd time and place to do that. He is about to die and He says in John chapter 15, verse 11:

I have told you this so that My joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.

And again you can read for yourself in John chapter 16, verse 20. He says:

I tell you the truth – you’ll weep and mourn while the world rejoices you will grieve but your grief will turn to joy. A women giving birth to a child has pain because her time has come but when her baby is born she forgets the anguish because of her joy that a child has been born into this world. So it’ll be with you. Now is your time of grief but I will see you again and you will rejoice and no one can take away that joy. In that day you will no longer ask Me anything. I tell you the truth, My Father will give you whatever you ask in My name. Until now you haven’t asked anything in My name – ask and you will receive and your joy will be complete.

And again, His final prayer before He is crucified – you read it in John chapter 17, verse 13. He says to God, His Father:

I’m coming to You now but I say these things while I’m still in the world so that they may have the full measure of My joy within them.

See, when Jesus is talking about joy He is not talking about a warm and fuzzy. He said all of these things just before He was about to be crucified. Clearly, He wasn’t having a warm and fuzzy. There is a clear distinction between the world’s happiness and the joy of the Lord. And He does this on the night before He is to be crucified as if to draw a clear line between the two.

He talked so much about joy so close to His brutal crucifixion. The Holy Spirit is nothing if not absolutely consistent. And again He draws this peculiar distinction by including in the New Testament, a whole book about joy – written by the Apostle Paul whilst he was in a Roman dungeon, in chains and on death row.

We’ve been looking at that book over these last few weeks on the program, it’s the Book of Philippians. It’s a letter that Paul wrote whilst in jail, to his friends in the church in Philippi. Now let’s continue there today. If you have got a Bible, grab it and open it up at Philippians chapter 2. Come with me into God’s Word.

I truly believe and I’ve seen it often in people and I’ve seen it in days gone by in my own life; that we ourselves do so much to rob ourselves of this joy that the Master – let me say this quite deliberately now – that the Master died in order that we may have. That is the price He puts on this joy, His joy in us, complete and abundant and overflowing. How sweet it is! Yet we ourselves, we can rob ourselves of that joy which has such a high price on its head.

Come with me now to see what the Holy Spirit writes to us through Paul in his prison cell about this tragic robbing. Comes from Philippians chapter 2:

If you have any encouragement from being united with Christ; if you got any comfort from His love; if any fellowship with the Spirit; if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded; having the same love; being one in Spirit and purpose. Don’t do anything out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests but also to the interests of others.

Just short four verses!

So what is Paul saying to the Philippians and what is the Holy Spirit whispering to you and me today, all these centuries on? “If you have any encouragement from being united with Christ …” In other words, if there is any benefit at all from knowing Jesus; any comfort from His love; any fellowship with His Spirit; any tenderness and compassion, if you have got anything out of knowing Jesus Christ, make my joy here in this dungeon complete. How? By doing what? Well effectively, by being humble.

Here is Paul with his own life in serious risk if the truth be known, shackled in a prison, talking to his friends in Philippi about such a serious matter. The thing that will rob them of their joy is their pride. Listen again to these words:

… then make my joy complete by being like-minded; having the same love; being one is spirit and purpose; do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit but in humility, consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests but also to the interests of others.

Let me ask you this. How much joy is there in selfish ambition and vain conceit? At the end of the day when all that matters is looking after “number one”, our own interests, it’s so empty and hollow and let me say, completely joyless. When we manipulate and strive to get our own way; when we harbour selfish ambition and vain conceit in our hearts and live them out in our lives; when we tread on people and destroy our relationships, in truth, what we discover is that we are completely alone. What joy is there in that?

But when we, in humility, consider others better than ourselves; when we look after other people’s interests and not our own, well, we turn that around completely and that, my friend, removes a blockage to joy. Listen to how James and Peter put it. James chapter 4, verse 6 and First Peter chapter 5, verse 5 as they quote Proverbs 3:34:

God opposes the proud but He gives grace to the humble.

If we would have that deep and abiding joy of which the Master spoke on that frightful evening before He was crucified; the joy that He prayed over us in that final prayer; that joy that He died to purchase, then let me say bluntly, that we too must come to that cross and lose our lives.

An Odd Place

I remarked earlier in the programme that a dungeon on death row is an odd place for Paul to sit and write a letter about joy. It’s a short letter, just a few pages, but it oozes the joy of the Lord. Earlier we saw that the Holy Spirit through Paul’s words was putting His finger on one of the things that robs us of joy – selfish ambition and conceit, getting our own way. And he pleads with his friends, “If you have any benefit from knowing Jesus Christ, put all that other stuff behind you.”

Well, that’s easier said than done. I mean, we’re all a bit selfish; we all want our own way, and one of the first words we learn to utter as little children is, “No!”, so how do we get beyond that? How do we grow and move on so that instead of being disobedient to God and being robbed of His joy, we love Him through our obedience and live “in” His joy? See, obedience – it’s not a particularly trendy word these days – it smacks of old fashioned, rigid, out dated religion, doesn’t it? Yet John writes in First John chapter 5, verse 3:

The love of God is this: that we obey His commandments.

That’s how we express our love to God. Ok, well, that much most of us know. We know the theory but what about the practice? The prize is the joy of the Lord, so how do we get over our sin of selfish pride that robs us of that prize? Well lets go on to see what the Holy Spirit is whispering into our hearts through the next part of this Book – Philippians chapter 2, beginning at verse 5 – he writes this:

Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus who being in the very nature of God, didn’t consider equality with God something to be grasped but made Himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant being made in human likeness and being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself and became obedient to death, even death on a cross. Therefore God exalted Him to the highest place and gave Him the name that is above every name.

That at the name of Jesus, every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord to the glory of God the Father. Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed, not just in my presence, but now much more in my absence, continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling for it is God who works in you to will and to act according to His good purpose.

This is a wondrous picture of the cross. Have you ever thought about it this way? I mean, it’s tough for anyone to do, to go to the cross, but Jesus humbled Himself. He stepped out of His glorious heavenly realm where angels bowed down and worshipped Him and became a man. What a huge step of humility. And Paul is saying here, “Let your attitude”, literally, “Let this be in you, just as it was in Jesus.” I love that.

See, Jesus comes first; He does it first. He never asks us to do something He hasn’t already done and when we hear His gentle call, we hear a call to follow Him. Do you hear that call in your heart today? “Follow Me; come follow Me to the cross – the place where I poured Myself out for you.” Jesus, God Himself, didn’t consider what He was entitled to out of His love for us, you and me. He humbled Himself and became – wait for it, here it is, that word – obedient to death, even such an excruciating death as death on a cross.

And He is calling us here, to lay down our lives – this great paradox. We think we can get joy our own way but we don’t discover the joy of God until we lay our lives down; until we die to self. This is the heart of the message of joy. So long as you and I reign as our own little tin pot, despotic dictators in our lives there can be no joy of the Lord. So long as the self, selfish, self absorbed, self centred wraps its tendrils around our heart, that heart will be constricted and all joy squeezed out of it.

I mean, real joy, the joy that comes from God Himself. That when we go to Him and say, “Jesus, I crown You as Lord of my life, every part, every dealing, what I eat and drink and say and do and think and feel and hope and dream; every dealing and every transaction.” When we crucify that “self” on the cross, look at what happens, Jesus is exalted and there in comes the joy.

Listen again to His prayer that night before He died; a prayer that He prayed very deliberately for you and me. His final prayer before the cross, the purpose of His suffering.

Father, I’m coming to you now but I say these things while I’m still in the world so that they may have the full measure of My joy within them.

Do you see this? Obedience is a word of liberation not oppression. The sweetest paradox of the human experience is that ‘the self’ is a ruthless tyrant. It is at the cross where we invite the Spirit of God into our hearts to breathe His joy into us. Here is that peculiar distinction between the world’s happiness and God’s joy. Listen with me to the last part of the passage we just read, Philippians chapter 2, verses 12 and 13:

Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed not only in my presence but now much more so in my absence, continue to work out your salvation in fear and trembling for it is God who works in you to will and to act according to His good purpose.

We are going to come back and look at God’s work in us next.

Shining Like Stars

My prayer for you today is that God’s Word has quickened your heart to His purpose, His purpose for joy in your life. See, dying to self is such a scary concept; such a step of faith and not just once but daily. Look at what Jesus says in Luke chapter 9, beginning at verse 23:

Jesus said to all of them “If anyone would come after Me he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow Me. For whoever wants to save his life will lose it but whoever loses his life for My sake will save it.

This is the great paradox of dying to live. And you see, God wants us to shine like stars – we are going to look a little bit further what Paul writes about that. And that’s what happens when we have the joy of the Lord in us because there is something that happens; something that the rest of the world sees when God is at work in our hearts; when we live the joy that can only be found at that cross.

See, this last bit is so important because it speaks about the attitude we take as we suffer as the self dies. Make no mistake, death is always painful. When Jesus talked about taking up our cross daily and following Him, He was talking about nailing ‘the self’ to flesh and the flesh will hang on for dear life. It will be prone to complain and grumble; it will want to turn back; to run from the cross. Listen again as the Holy Spirit whispers His wisdom into our hearts. We are going to pick up what Paul was saying at Philippians chapter 2, beginning at verse 14:

Do everything without complaining or arguing so that you may become blameless and pure children of God, without a fault in a crooked and depraved generation in which you shine like stars in the universe as you hold out the word of life in order that I may boast on the day of Christ that I did not run or labour for nothing. But even if I am being poured out like a drink offering on the sacrifice and service coming from your faith, I am glad and rejoice with all of you so that you too should be glad and rejoice with me.

See, humility; laying down our lives at the cross, stands out but it’s not humility when we complain and argue and grumble. Humility is when we submit obediently to the will of God; dying to self. There are times in my walk where this dying has been particularly painful I can tell you, the power of the temptation to lash out and blame others; to grumble and complain. You see, dying at the cross never seems fair. “I have rights you know, I am entitled”, the flesh cries. But the Spirit of God calls us to this odd place to discover joy.

Our attitude should be the same as that of Christ, who being in the very nature of God didn’t consider equality with God to be something to be grasped, but made Himself nothing, taking the very nature of the servant, being made in human form and being found in appearance as a man, humbling Himself, He became obedient to death, even death on a cross.

We should be like that. That is what Paul is saying; that is what the Holy Spirit is saying and here is what happens. We all of a sudden appear different to those around us – utterly different – other worldly. Like something that is rarely seen on this planet, we shine like stars amidst a crocked and perverse generation. We shine with a light of joy that only glows in a life surrendered to Jesus Christ. And that light is what will draw others naturally to Jesus.

What a great deception of the devil that is, to have us think that joy only comes when we assert our rights and follow our driving ambition. What a great deception! You see the truth is exactly the opposite. Real joy; the joy of the Lord comes in that bitter sweet surrender of our lives on that cross. There is Paul in the dungeon – see how he talks about himself? He says:

Even if I am being poured out like a drink offering on the sacrifice and service coming from your faith.

You see, Paul is facing execution because he preached the Gospel of Jesus, not just to the Philippians but right around the known world. Paul is coming to the end of his life and is looking martyrdom right in the face. He is looking death right in the face and yet his greatest concern is the joy of those in Philippi, that they experience the joy of God; that they don’t do anything through selfish ambition or vain conceit to miss out on the joy of the Lord. And here is Paul in this dark dungeon shining like a star amidst a crooked and depraved generation.

Have you ever looked up at the stars lately, away from the light of the city and the smog of the city, and looked up at the stars and what a wondrous sight it is? That’s what the Holy Spirit wants us to be in this world that’s so dark sometimes – in this world where people just follow their noses and do what feels right and look after their own vain interests.

Jesus wants us to stand out and be different and that joy is what makes us different. It shines like a star. The joy of the Lord comes in that bitter sweet surrender of our lives on that cross – a life-long surrender; a daily surrender.

“Take up your cross every day and follow Me,” said Jesus.

A surrender that will mean loss and pain as the self is crucified, but a surrender that little by little will reveal this purpose of God – that our joy would shine like a star in a dark and hurting world.

I want encourage you – if you haven’t surrendered all of your life to Jesus Christ, do that right now. The prize is so wondrous. Yes, it’s a step of faith; yes, it’s a scary thing to let go of things that we know are wrong, but the prize is the joy of the Lord. The prize is living a life where God takes just who we are and who He made us, for us to shine like stars amidst a crooked and depraved generation.

Jesus promised us His complete and perfect and abundant joy. Problem is: there are so many things that want to rob us of that joy.

A Man of Sorrows

I’m not sure what you’re doing today or what you have planned for the next half hour or so, but right now I want to encourage you to spend some time with me because this week on the programme we are going to look at what it is to live a life of joy. And I truly believe that it’s no coincidence that you and I together right now.

I know a least one person who doesn’t want you to hear what God has to say about “joy” today, because it could transform your life and that’s the last thing the devil wants for you. There is real power in God’s Word; real power. So why don’t you join me in this last programme in a series that I’ve called, “It’s Time to Start Enjoying My Life”.

Joy can be a difficult concept to come to grips with. Most people in their lives have pressures and strains and some relationships that hurt and perhaps some money problems. I had an email recently from a woman who had been in a difficult situation for a number of years and as much as she had prayed, God simply hadn’t changed the situation. We all have stuff in our lives and somehow that stuff seems to rob us of our joy and we seem powerless to do anything about it.

We can look right across every part of our lives and things may be going really well everywhere except in this one little area, maybe our health is great, maybe family’s good, works all good except we have money worries or everything is good except this teenager in our family is giving us grief. You know what I mean! My point is that each one of us can point to something in our life today and say, “See, that’s why I don’t have any joy in my life.”

Today, as I said, we are looking at the last message in a series of four programmes called, “It’s Time to Start Enjoying My Life”. This message is a rather “hits the road” message – it’s about living the life of joy. This half hour may be one of the best investments in your life that you will ever make.

Over the last three weeks, we’ve been joining the Apostle Paul in his Roman dungeon on death row. He wrote a letter to his friends, the Philippians. It’s a book in the New Testament, only a few pages long. It’s a letter of great encouragement, encouraging them in their faith. And the central thing, the whole point of this letter is about joy – that deep, abiding joy that Jesus promised and died to give us. And yes, I know that can be hard to come to grips with when we have something in our lives that seems to be robbing us of joy.

Last week I shared with you the promises that Jesus made on His last night with his disciples before He was crucified – the promises He made about joy. Now let’s just go there again and read them and let the Spirit of God write those promises on our hearts today.

On that last evening together with His disciples before He was to be crucified, He talks so much about joy. What an odd time and place to do that! He is about to die, His disciples are afraid and Jesus talks about joy. Have a listen. John chapter 15:11:

I have told you this so that My joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.

And again, John chapter 16, beginning at verse 20:

I tell you the truth; you will weep and mourn while the world rejoices. You will grieve but your grief will turn to joy. A women giving birth to a child has pain because her time has come but when the baby is born she forgets the anguish because of her joy that a child is born into the world. So it will be with you.

Now is your time for grief but I will see you again and you will rejoice and no one will take away your joy. In that day you will no longer ask Me anything. I tell you the truth, My Father will give you whatever you ask in My name. Until now you have not asked for anything in My name. Ask and you will receive and your joy will be complete.

And in His final prayer before He is crucified He prays “Father, I am coming to you now but I say all these things while I’m still in the world so that they may have the full measure of My joy within them.”

Jesus is talking about joy not about the sort of warm and fuzzy we get when we go to the shop and buy some nice new thing. There is a clear distinction between the happiness of this world and the joy of the Lord and as if to draw a clear line between the two, He talks so much about the joy of God so close to his brutal crucifixion. And you know, it’s interesting in the same way, Paul talks about joy in the midst of his sorrows as if to underscore the point that Jesus was making: that the joy of the Lord isn’t something that depends on our circumstances. Have a listen to the very human words of Paul from his letter to the Philippians chapter 2, beginning at verse 25. It’s really a very human letter. He says:

I think it’s necessary to send back to you Epaphroditus, my brother, fellow worker and fellow soldier who is also your messenger whom you sent to care for my needs. He longs for all of you and is distressed because you heard he was sick. Indeed he was, he almost died but God had mercy on him and not only on him but me too – to spare me sorrow upon sorrow. Therefore, I am all the more eager to send him to you so that when you see him again you may be glad and may have less anxiety. Welcome him in the Lord with great joy and honour men like him because he almost died for the “work of Christ, risking his life to make up for the help you couldn’t give me. Finally, my brothers, rejoice in the Lord.

See, I love this passage. Paul is a guy, he is in jail, he’s got friends he is writing to, he has this friend, Epaphroditus, who almost died but God spared the man’s life and spared Paul sorrow upon sorrow. You know, it’s easy to idealise Paul and think, ‘WOW, you know, this guy wrote almost half of the New Testament but in his life he had sorrow upon sorrow. People tried to kill him, there were riots when he preached, he had disappointments when he was prevented from going to places he wanted to go, he was ship wrecked, he was beaten, now he is imprisoned on death row, people are taunting him – other Christians. This man had sorrow after sorrow and yet still he writes, “Rejoice in the Lord, my brothers.”

I think God’s trying to tell us something through Paul: that our circumstances are no excuse for not experiencing God’s joy. But how do we overcome those? Well, we are going to take a look at what God has to say about that next.

Rejoice in the Lord

Now let’s pick up here with Paul in the dungeon and look at what it means to live a life of joy. The passage we are about to look at is perhaps one that you know really well. This passage is about making the rubber hit the road. This passage tells us how it is that we can have the joy of the Lord no matter what circumstances we find ourselves in. This passage is a jewel. Open your Bible, come with me to Philippians chapter 4, beginning at verse 4. Come, let’s have a read:

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again, I say rejoice. Let your gentleness be known to all. The Lord is at hand. Don’t be anxious about anything but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God and the peace of God which passes all understanding will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

It’s a wondrous passage – just four little verses. We are going to look at each one separately now; really unpack this. You know I think the more familiar we are with a passage, well, the more we kind of just skim over it. “Oh yea, I know that one, I’ve read it before.” Well, let’s not do that this time; let’s see what the Holy Spirit is saying to each one of us here in His Word.
Let’s look at the first verse, Philippians chapter 4, verse 4:

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I say rejoice.

Have you ever wonder about the difference between the two words “joy” on the one hand and “rejoice” on the other? Well, “joy” is the thing that Jesus bought for us on the cross; joy is the thing that Jesus wants to give us. But “rejoicing” is what we do with that “joy” when we enter into that joy; when we take the decision that says, “YES, His promise is for me. You know something? I am going to live in that joy and I am going to rejoice. I am going to praise Him, I’m going to thank Him.”

See, this verse is the punch line of the whole Book of Philippians. It’s what Paul is saying, in a nutshell, from his dungeon. “I am going to enter into God’s joy always in all circumstances, rejoice in the Lord always. And I’m deciding right here and right now, that I am going to live a life of joy always.” And just in case we missed it, he said it twice:

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I say rejoice.

Wake up! Jesus promise of joy is for you and for me. But how do we rejoice? Well, the next verse opens the door to joy. It’s a verse about humility. We talked last week on the programme about how our sin, particularly the sin of pride and scheming and all that stuff we know is wrong, robs us of the joy of the Lord. Verse 5, chapter 4 of Philippians, Paul writes:

Let your gentleness be known to all for the Lord is near.

The Greek word that sits aback of that word “gentleness” means “moderation, patience” – it’s a word of humility. No humility, no joy!

We go racing around full of ourselves – self-centred, self-seeking, self-absorbed, treading on people to achieve our ends. There can be no joy in that. Come on! If we have Jesus in us, the Lord is near. There’s fruit that comes out of that – love, joy peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control – let that fruit grow. Why? Because Jesus is in this place. It’s time to let the Spirit of God have sway in our lives – complete control – because He has arrived.

If we don’t get this bit … this bit is about obedience, there will be no joy. I can’t live my life my way and then expect Jesus to show up and bless me with His joy. “Oh, ok, ok, Berni,” I hear you thinking to yourself, “but how do I live in that joy when there are so many things out there that want to rob me of the joy? I can hear the theory: the joy of the Lord doesn’t depend on my circumstances, but how do I actually live that? How do I actually experience that?”

Well, the next verse tell us, verse 6:

Do not be anxious about anything but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.

I don’t know, it seems too simple to be true. Take it to God in prayer, ask Him and thank Him, “Present your requests to God”. See, the temptation is to look for a solution everywhere else other than with God.

You know, when I get up in the morning, my normal routine – I get up reasonably early – and my first thing is, after I have a shower, a cup of tea, I sit down with the Lord and I pray and I read the Word and just spend time with Him. You know what the temptation is? The temptation is to go and check my emails and see who has emailed me from around the world.

This is where the rubber hits the road. We need to take our lives to God first. Any problem, any issue, any need, don’t be anxious about it; don’t run around in a flap about it but “in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, take your requests to God.”

Let’s say your husband or your wife is going through a difficult patch – there’s a blind spot; they can’t see it but you can and so it’s affecting your relationship; it’s affecting both of you but every time you talk about it, it ends up in an argument. What do you do? Give them the cold and silent treatment? Go and talk to a friend? Just try and sweep it under the carpet?

OR, every day, do you spend time with the Lord? “God, thank You for putting me is this position. Lord, thank You so much that I can pray and thank You that I can be faithful to my wife or my husband and just love them through this. Lord, give me the strength and the wisdom, give me the gentleness; show me how I can change. Lord, bless my wife; Lord, bless my husband, open their heart by Your Spirit.”

Do you get the point? Every day, faithfully, giving thanks, rejoicing that the Lord is in that place with you and then the answer comes. Here it is. Here God tells us how it is that we can live in His joy, despite what is going on – verse 7:

And the peace of God which passes all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

You see, the joy and the peace of God are not something you and I conjure up; they’re not something that we fabricate. They’re not positive thinking; they’re not some clever “double think”, where on the one hand I have troubles over here and on the other I trick my mind and emotions into a state of joy. They are none of those things – the peace and the joy of God are His gift to us. The Spirit of God comes and places His angels around our heart so that the pains and the fears that were piercing pierce it no longer.

How does that happen? Paul says, “I don’t know”, it transcends all human understanding. It’s beyond human comprehension but what I can tell you is that when we decide to take God at His Word, it just happens.

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I say rejoice. Let you gentleness be evident to all because Jesus is here. Don’t be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, take your requests to God and the peace of God, which passes all understanding will guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus.

It’s just how it works!

Thinking and Doing

“WOW”, isn’t God’s Word powerful and wonderful? The truth is often so simple and you and I know when we hear the truth of God’s Word it just, well, it rings true in our hearts.

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I’ll say it, rejoice. Let your gentleness be known to all for the Lord is near. Don’t be anxious about anything but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, take your requests to God and the peace of God which passes all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

But here’s so often what happens. We hear the truth and it rings in our hearts and inside we say, “YES, yes, this is what I have been looking for!” And tonight we go to bed and tomorrow we face the same old problems and issues and fears and anxieties that gnaw away in our heads. You see it takes time to change our minds; it takes time to renew our minds. And it’s when our minds are renewed that God changes our lives.

That’s what Paul writes in Romans chapter 12:1-2. He writes that we will be transformed by the renewing of our minds. See, we need to change our minds from the old way of thinking – “Oh, there is no way out. Jesus promise of joy isn’t for me. Things are never going to change” – to the new way of thinking …

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I say rejoice.

You know what I’m talking about, right? You hear this message; you get fired up; you say, “YES! It’s for me”, and then all of a sudden reality sinks in and it’s like the message evaporates and it’s like, “I can’t change anything.” So how do we step into this new way of thinking? How do we live life in faith according to the Word of God? How do we take the joy that Jesus promised us?

Well, just in the next few verses in Philippians, the Holy Spirit tells us. He tells us how to stop these attacks in our mind. Philippians chapter 4, beginning at verse 8:

Finally brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure or lovely or admirable, if anything is excellent or praiseworthy, think about those things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me or seen in me, put it into practice and the God of peace will be with you.

In other words, think about the good things from God. Thinking is how our mind spends its time. Hear that again – thinking is about how our mind spends its time – where it goes, what it does. And it’s easy to keep going round and round and round the same old mulberry bush, especially when we have something in our lives that is eating away at us. What I have decided to do in those circumstances is to take God at His Word. I’m just not going to let my mind go there.

You know, my mind is capable of grumbling and complaining and blaming people and thinking ill of them. I can get angry and wallow in self pity and when I feel my mind going there, I decide, “No, I’m just not going there, I’m going to think about Jesus. I’m going to think about the wonderful things He has done for me in my life. I’m going to think about that Scripture verse the Holy Spirit laid on my heart yesterday: There is no sense in the peace of God guarding my heart and my mind and me wandering off outside that peace and ruining my day!”

Every day I’m just going to do my best to put His Word into practice; not perfectly, mind you, just my best and I am going to rest my mind in His goodness and His Word and little by little joy and peace are going to come, no matter what is going on in my life.

The Apostle Paul learnt this through a life time of sorrows and trials and discovering the joy of the Lord in the midst of all of those. Listen to how he puts it in a nutshell. Philippians chapter 4, beginning at verse 10:

I rejoice greatly in the Lord that at last you have renewed your concern for me. Indeed, you have been concerned but you had no opportunity to show it. I’m not saying this because I’m in need, because you know something? I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need and I know what it is to have plenty and I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want, I can do everything through Him who strengthens me.

See, Paul is saying here that my joy does not depend on my circumstances because I have discovered when I take my needs and my fears and my hurts to God and I thank Him and I pray and I just put them at the foot of the cross, the Holy Spirit comes along and puts a joy in my heart that I just understand how it is there. It defies comprehension but God does that and He guards my heart and He guards my mind so that the attacks don’t come.

Listen to me, there’s only one place to get the joy of the Lord and it is from Him – it’s not from a friend, it’s not from something we buy, it’s not from how we work – it’s just from knowing Him and being with Him and listening to Him and letting Him do His stuff.

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again, I say rejoice!