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I-excellence uma iqhathwaniswa nokuba Perfect
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1 Johane 1:8 Uma sithi asinasono, siyazikhohlisa, neqiniso alikho kithi. Perfectionism is excellence blended with a not so healthy dose of arrogance and self-delusion.
I-excellence iyodwa ,kungokunye okwehlukile ke uma usukhuluma ngobu-perfect [ukwenza into kungabikho ngisho incaphephe encu] .Sonke sinabo o-perfectionist abahlale njalo besiwayinda besikhandele ukucikeka ,abahlale besiqhoqhobele basizwise ubuhlungu ezikhathini eziningi.
Angikubingele ngikwamukele engosini Efresh nginguSbonelo BT Ngema egameni lika Berni Dymet .Angikusho ukuthi nami ngibuya khona ekubeni yi-perefectionist.
Amaciko aye athi into enhle mase iyisidadada ingagcina isiyimbi.Ukuthi hlephu iqhuzu noma amabili ka-chocolate ,kuyinto enhle.Kodwa mase udla,,mase ulokoshela wonke ophelele zonke izinsuku kancane kancane nje qephu qephu ,sekuyisidada ke leso sekwedlulele.
Kuba kanjalo futhi nakwi-excellence.Ndlelazonke simelwe ukwenza ngamandla ethu wonke ukushaya into yezinga eliphezulu kukho konke esikwenzayo nangesikhathi sonke esisiphiweyo.Noma yikanjani ! Kodwa kukhona umehlukwana la omncane ongewunake mawungaqapheli lakhona esisuke sesingasekho ekubeni ngaba –excellent kodwa sesifuna ukuba ngaba –perfect .
Lokho kubi kakhulu.
Yebo ngiyazi ,lokhu engikushoyo kusengachukuluza abanye ,njengokuba ngishilo ukuthi nami ngiyisiguli esibuya kuyo i-ward yokuba yi –perfectionist wena ongafunga ngincimishi nomuntu osahlumelela isimilo emva kokuthi kade ecwila ngamadevu kusale isiphongo ngaphandle eyinkambeni. Nami ngisaqikelela uma sekuziwa kulesihloko ngoba bekuyikhonco lami leli.Manje pho umbuzo uzothi ukephi umehluko phakathi kwe –excellence ne –perfectionism ? Nanku la ukhona :
1 Johane 1:8 Uma sithi asinasono, siyazikhohlisa, neqiniso alikho kithi.
Uma sesiqala sikholwa yinkoleloze yethu,uma siphila ngokunganaki ngokokuthi akukho siphosiso esingasenza ,sithi yileza phukuphuku leziya ezingakwazi ukuphila ngokwezinga lami eliphezulu elinganachashazi,yibo laba abayinkinga…uma kunjalo nakanjani sesiyazi sesigudlukile ekubeni excellent [enhle] saya ekubeni ngaba perfect [okubi ] .Phela uma kunjalo silimaza ubudlelwano babantu esiphila nabo ,sikhanda iququ lempongo uqobo elinuka igceke lonke ,sigcina lapho sesingozithethelele sikwenza lokho egameni le-excellence yobuNkulunkulu .
Asithole nasi isambulo namhlanje .Ubu-perfectionism busuka buwuhlobo lwe excellence ,eyenganywe wukutumazela obungenampilo bokuphika ubuqiniso qede ugcwale ukuzikhohlisa ,Ngakho ,
Uma sithi asinasono, siyazikhohlisa, neqiniso alikho kithi..
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